It was unavoidable. Any one of the following reasons would have done it all by itself – combined, we were powerless:
- We like the word, and the concept, exegesis. (And her blog’s name is a play on it).
- She’s smart, and well-read. Who else could talk about Maslow’s hierarchy of needs and BDSM in the same paragraph? (actually, one other person, the polyamorist/psychotherapist/author Nan Wise, but still, that’s only two).
- Her blog is full up with wonderful posts – or up-to-the-minute really important stuff – at least for all of the pervs in her audience.
Here’s one excerpt – we’d plagiarize it all if not for wanting to curry favor:
Lucrezia magazine, Australia’s hottest new erotica pub, kicked off International Women’s Day with the launch of its March issue. In it, you’ll find an essay I like by the phenomenally talented Chelsea Summers, which examines a woman’s choice to terminate from a fascinating and rich perspective. You’ll also find my review of Best Sex Writing 2008, ed. Rachel Kramer Bussel, which I suggest you all go out and buy immediately. Want to know why? Click here for my magazine article.
Speaking of reviews, I’d also like to recommend a new website I just discovered. It’s called Fetlife, and it’s social networking (like Facebook or MySpace) for the BDSM/fetish community. If you’re a kinky person looking to connect with other kinksters—or if you’d like a special site for your fetish identity, separate from your vanilla profiles—this is the place for you.
Excerpted from A World of Perversion on Sexegesis.
And we only live one island away.

Aw. You rock. I owe you a shout-out!