Friday, July. 30th, 2010
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  • Lolita’s NYC Picks of the Week: July 29 – August 4
    A new munch in NYC: “Dom Women/Masculine Sub Men First Munch” on Friday at 7:30pm at Pot Luck Asian Cuisine, 255 W 26th St. They’ll be going on to the TES Papparazzo Party across the street at Paddles afterward. Saturday night check out the Submit Party for Women and Trans in Park Slope, Brooklyn. Call [...] […]
  • Hands-On Rope Bondage Intensive in Baltimore
    Everyone is invited on Saturday, July 31st for a four hour long Hands-On, Rope Bondage Intensive at Play House in Baltimore with Lolita Wolf. This Rope Intensive is Hands-On and limited to 12 people and will begin promptly at 1pm with a lunch break. Rope Bondage Four Hour Intensive There is nothing more classic than [...] […]
  • Things are looking up
    Jefferson on the Psychotherapist’s couch. I was surprised that he mentioned me. Vi’s library has its own website. Franklin Veaux‘s great chart for Non-Monogamy. Dan Savage writes about kink entrepreneurs in The Stranger. Alternet‘s article on how kink is becoming mainstream and accepted. Related posts Zip zip (0) You’re soaking in it (0) You’re as [...] […]
  • SMOOTH HOTEL show held over for the summer
    SMOOTH HOTEL features Barbara Nitke‘s provocative photographs of chic people misbehaving in anonymous hotel settings. The photography series is in collaboration with New York fashion designers Tom and Linda Platt. You can see it at 69 Gansevoort Street, NYC through August 22, 2010. Update 7/28: Oops! Just got word that 69 Gansevoort has closed! But [...] […]
  • Poly Class and Sex Positive Pansexual Play Party in Baltimore
    Everyone is invited to a Sex Positive Pansexual Play Party hosted by the Friends of Play House and Baltimore TNG to be held at Play House in Baltimore on Friday night, July 30th from 9pm until 2am. I will be presenting a workshop about how to have more successful poly relationships at 9:30pm and open [...] […]

‘Marcelle Manhattan’ Archives

Marcelle goes on a date/Why hair ties are important

We're jealous. You will be, too. From "Marcelle goes on a date." (And remember, there's more than one part) He returned from the closet with a pair of black silk men’s pajamas. I lifted my tank over my head right there, exposing my pink lacy bra, and slipped on the oversized nightshirt. Then I shoved down my pants, and began to don the [...]

Marcelle: “An Accidental Whore”

As happens so often when I read her work - it seems to be going towards one place - and ends up somewhere else entirely. An Accidental Whore. She's also brutally honest about herself - perhaps more self-critical than she deserves. But An Accidental Whore is well worth the read, on Marcelle Manhattan's Sexegesis.

Collared Catalina

Collared Catalina we don't, at the moment, have time for a review or excerpts (building some shelves, etc.; husbandly devotion exceeds skills slightly, so great care must be taken) - but Collared Catalina is worth a look: only if you like pervy smart women with attitude, like our ever-favorites Marcelle Manhattan and AAG.

Marcelle Manhattan zooms past “deconstruction” – goes right to “demolition”

Next stops, cogitation and redefinition. In her essay I Fucked a Girl, Ms. Manhattan (named, we believe, for the island rather than the cocktail or the chowder) shreds - and then folds, spindles and mutilates - the gay-straight-bisexual matrix, and probably the Kinsey scale too. While probably making people of any sexual preference hot. And [...]

Why we have a crush on Marcelle Manhattan (3 of many reasons)

It was unavoidable. Any one of the following reasons would have done it all by itself - combined, we were powerless: We like the word, and the concept, exegesis. (And her blog's name is a play on it). She's smart, and well-read. Who else could talk about Maslow's hierarchy of needs and BDSM in the same paragraph? (actually, one other person, [...]

the kind of girl someone should have warned you about

Bad Influence Girl is an exemplar of the principle of truth in advertising. We discovered her as a commenter at Always Aroused Girl. She can turn something clean and wholesome, like housework, into something perverse and dirty, as in this post about laundry. For shame. What's more - the always-worth-reading Marcelle Manhattan reads her, too. [...]