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3. You will meet some of the most wonderful people.

Whether it is online in a chatroom/forum or in your local community, there are some wonderful people involved in this lifestyle. People come from every walk of life. The majority of people I have met are simply interested in having a good time. Since this tends to be off the “mainstream” path, most individuals seem to be less judging than the average person. Enjoying ourselves while being considerate of others is of utmost importance.

These are some of the main reasons why many people get involved with BDSM. It is a lifestyle which allows for a lot of variety. Some elect to restrict it to their sex lives while others make it the primary foundation. Regardless of what you prefer, BDSM offers something for everyone.

Dennis Najee.

beautiful red toy with tail - from Dennis Najee

Couldn’t help myself – one more image after the jump …  

Lovely image via the estimable Dennis Najee

I had just been tied up, scratched, beaten and drooled on. I was a very happy boy. I was standing around trying to keep a big silly grin from taking over my face.

Troy came up to me and said “Hey how’s it feel to finally play at a play party?”

I wanted to say “good” or “fine thank you” or something that sounded more cool but what came out was probably something that sounded like “awwwwwwweeeessssoooooooooommmmmmmmmeeeeeeeeeeee”.

That was when Troy mentioned that the party would be coming to an end soon and then added, “Lets whip you first”.

This was to be the second time Troy had whipped me at a play party. After the first time she mentioned how everyone stopped what they were doing just to watch. I can’t say that I blame them. People probably stop to watch Troy put butter on her toast.       

She had me take my shirt off and face her A-frame mounted on the wall. My hands gripped the wood as she started to make rhythmic beats on my back.

This is where things get really foggy for me. When I’m experiencing this kind of pain, everything else goes away. The only thing that exists is me and the other person but there’s no time involved. There will be moments when it feels like it is lasting forever and others when it feels like it just started a nanosecond ago.

I only remember emotions. Sometimes I get angry. Not at the person doing the whipping, but at the pain. Sometimes I get angry that it’s not always there when I need it and sometimes it’s because it just fucking hurts. Maybe anger isn’t the right word. It’s just a release of emotion when I feel that kind of pain. I was a little embarrassed when I realized everyone was looking at us. (Ok maybe more Troy than I, but hey…I was the sidekick to this little show).

For me, bdsm is more about the person than the act (not that it’s not about the act as well..but…well you know what I’m getting at). Troy almost becomes the whip– she’s not using an implement as much as she’s making the whip an extension of herself. The whip isn’t whipping me, she is.

It was raw. It was hot, it was…yummy.

And there’s more just as good as this.  The Unspeakable Axe.